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People Are Not Throw Aways "People are not throw aways!" according to Dr. John A. Hamrick, pastor emeritus of Charleston's First Baptist Church. "Everyone has assets even those in homeless shelters," Richard Hendry, program director of the Community Foundation asserts. Personnel policies at the ten best places to work in America reinforce these concepts, but such enlightened attitudes is not the experience of so many in the workforce. Discrimination lawsuits of every variety are skyrocketing. Work place violence is surging but some employers act as if workers are there to be abused. Joe Worker died and arrived at the heavenly portals where he was met by St. Peter. "Due to over crowding we have a new policy," said St. Peter. "New arrivals get to spend three days in heaven and hell before they make a final decision." Joe decided to try hell first and St. Peter pushed the down button for the elevator. When the doors opened, it was a wonderful sight. Joe saw many of his friends. Some were laughing and talking. Some were dancing and others were discussing the various golf courses. Joe's three days zipped by. When he arrived for his three days in heaven not much was going on. Angels drifted by on their clouds and others were singing in a great choir. Finally his time was up and St. Peter demanded Joe's decision. As strange as it may seem. Joe chose hell because most of his friends were there and everything seemed so wonderful. When the doors opened this time it was the most miserable sight that Joe had ever seen. People were sweating, their clothes were ragged and filthy and they were moaning and complaining. The devil saw Joe's consternation and came over. Joe asked, "When I was here three days ago people were having such a wonderful time, what happened?" The devil rubbed his hands together and looked at Joe with a joyful expression . "When you were here before you were a recruit. Today you are staff!" Unfortunately that is the case in so many places, but it doesn't have to be that way. The February issue of the Harvard Management Communication Letter in an article about telecommuting states, "The old model was based on supervision. You put your posterior in a chair, and your boss saw to it that you kept it there for 40 hours- or more - per week. With telecommuting the focus shifts from time on task as a measure of worker performance to the quality of the end product. And that takes trust. The boss has to trust that the workers are getting the job done even though she can't see them." Further the article states, "When a relationship is based on trust - and results, you can't micromanage the process." Trust is such an important ingredient in an employment relationship, yet it is rarely discussed in management circles. No contract can cover every possible circumstance nor can a supervisor be watchful 100% of the time; therefore, trust is the only solution. Micromanagement is self defeating since it breeds an atmosphere of suspicion and distrust. People usually meet our expectations. Micromanagement diminishes both the manager and the worker. Set reasonable goals of quality and quantity. Select the right person for the job. Provide the necessary training and resources needed to successfully meet the requirements and get out of the way. Respect your employees and they will respect you. You must give what you expect to get. |
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u u u Dr. Mitchell Carnell Jr. is a business consultant, speaker and trainer on improving communication skills, especially speaking and listening skills and customer service. He may be reached at 2444 Birkenhead Rd., Charleston, S.C. 29414. His telephone number is 843-556-2310 or you may e-mail him at mitch@mitchcarnell.net. For more information go to http://www.mitchcarnell.net. |