SAY SOMETHING NICE!
The Post and
Courier |Editorial
THURSDAY, JUNE 01, 2006 12:00 AM
Happy 'Say Something Nice Day'
Today isn't just the start of hurricane season. It's the start of
"Effective Communications Month." And North Charleston Mayor Keith Summey
has effectively communicated an upbeat message by proclaiming this "Say
Something Nice Day" in his city.
That wording is borrowed from "Say Something Nice: Be A Lifter," the title
of a booklet by Dr. Mitch Carnell, who served as head of the Charleston
Speech and Hearing Center for more than 35 years. Dr. Carnell, a certified
speech language pathologist, who conducts communications workshops for
North Charleston and other public and private enterprises, elaborated on
that advice Tuesday. He stressed to us the reciprocal benefits that
generally arise from positive remarks - "particularly to the first person
you meet every day, because it can set the tone."
Dr. Carnell decries contagious "negativity," explaining: "If the first
person you meet in your day says something nice to you, you get a smile on
your face. If the person says something ugly, you start out on a bad
foot."
As Mayor Summey put it in his "Say Something Nice" proclamation, "The city
of North Charleston strives to promote a sense of community with all of
our employees and citizens by promoting better communications."
Those are admirable goals for any community, group or individual. So start
out your month, day, and, yes, even the 2006 hurricane season out well by
following the "Say Something Nice" advice of Dr. Carnell and Mayor Summey.
Otherwise, you might say something not so nice ? and somebody might
respond accordingly.
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